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    July 30

    Autumn

    Autumn is my favorate season, after a long hot summer, in north China, we have a a clearness, cool weather.
    Although the autumn in Beijing has not began,  some rain has already fall down. Sawing the leaves falled in the street, I even think the autumn had already come.
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    July 29

    半缘修道半缘君

    本来想拿中文搞点人气,赚赚评论。于是选择了一个最煽情的话题--爱情--生死不渝的爱情。思路是这样的,

    第一段,先讲诗

    曾经沧海难为水,除却巫山不是云。
    取次花丛懒回顾,半缘修道半缘君。

    第二段,讲个故事

    讲一对青年的感情磨难。

    第三段,总结,提出观点,遇到相爱的人是缘分,珍惜缘分...

    整遍文章构思好了之后,才发现自己操纵中文的能力也不很强。试着写了一会,发现不通顺,很难打动人。于是上网搜索了一下这个诗,却发现了诗背后的故事...

     

     

    曾经沧海难为水,除却巫山不是云(转)

    www.haiyun.net  2004-9-8  海运.Net


    曾经沧海难为水,除却巫山不是云。
    取次花丛懒回顾,半缘修道半缘君。


      ‘曾经沧海难为水,除却巫山不是云'受奉为文艺界爱情感悟的经典名句。实际上的含义搁浅去深思考究,只消一目带过这句话,表面上已觉煽情又浮夸。

      诗,为元稹书予亡妻韦蕙丛。后人亦有揣测兴许是写给莺莺,但念及后半句‘取次花丛懒回顾,半缘修道半缘君',说明元稹下笔阶段处于韦蕙丛身故,他寄心于道消弭眷恋。

      诗写的感人肺腑,读起来也有几分似是而非的情真意切,仿佛元稹确实重情重义。呵呵,实际上他是普天之下最为言行不一的爱情骗子,或将他形容成‘情圣'更为恰当。

      在蒲州的普救寺,二十二岁的元稹与莺莺一见钟情,顺红娘推波助澜私定终生。数月后,元稹赴京赶考,娶高官之女韦蕙丛,莺莺随后另嫁他人。一年後,元稹遇莺莺的丈夫,以表兄身份请求相见,莺莺再三拒绝,最后去诗:‘弃置今何道,当时且自亲,还将旧时意,怜取眼前人。' 子非鱼说:莺莺暧昧,不要求长相厮守,只叹[始乱终弃,愚不敢恨]。有说凡此种种难以理解。

      有那么难理解吗?莺莺生为封建时代的女子,贞节牌坊在当时贵重过性命。米兰在她的《郎骑白马去》中引用[妾拟将身嫁予,一生休!]表达无悔的执着,一个女孩将自己的身体交予毫无关系的男人纠缠出瓜葛,没有任何奢求与目的,难道还不能证明她的爱与真心?

      莺莺以为凭元稹的才华与聪敏,会了解她心底的百转千回。元稹确实明白,可他选择假装糊涂甚至闭上心门不听不看。

      类似的,陈后主叔宝偶至后宫遇皇后,戏谑问:‘留侬不留侬?不留侬去也。此处不留人,自有留人处。' 三千粉黛,多的是佳丽等他临幸。皇后于是无奈回诗:‘谁道不相忆?见罢倒成羞。情知不肯住,教妾若为留?' 后主闻言而怒,竟欲废后。

      谁说我不想念你?见到了羞怯得无措至极,明明知道你心不在这,教我如何留得住你?这般情念,她在后主逝世后削发为尼强自淡化。

      女人的爱总是太纯粹,她们的爱情定义里,爱的全部仍然是爱。男人的爱只是他们的需要,而他们的需要范围内有很多定义。

      女人生来是水做的。以佛家的说法,水是宇宙元素中最为灵活易变通;置入杯中是水、打碎了滴落满地仍是水、饮入体内还是水,不变的本质,转换的是适应所在环境的自身。女人通常把自己化成水,为了她的男人改变,在他的容器内转化令他满意舒适的形体去达成他的要求;柔柔软软温温和和地将他包围,在享受他的眷顾同时用天鹅绒般的透明羽翼纳他入怀呵护;像水一般,遇冷则寒,遇灼则暖。

      男人大多像元稹,爱是需要的一种,和其它需要等值或高或低。取次花丛懒回顾,半缘修道半缘君。说得那么动人心弦。你是我唯一的精神寄托,没有你再美艳的风景对我而言都失去的意义。是这样吗?

      我可以抗拒‘曾经沧海'华丽的比拟,笑嗤他的‘除却巫山不是云',却又为他的‘半缘修道半缘君'悸动不已。在未知他的罗曼史之前,被唬骗得以为他当真痴情得罕见。

      可笑的是,元稹在写下这首诗,韦蕙丛逝世不久,继娶河东才女裴柔之,又与名妓薛涛、刘采青私交甚笃……花名册上群芳数不胜数。

      十年一觉扬州梦,赢得青楼薄幸名。男人的醒悟,代价是多少女人的心碎?

      元稹的确如他所言‘取次花丛懒回顾'。但他不是视万紫千红视若无睹,而是尝遍了千娇百媚之後,得到了'懒回顾'的有感而发。何其残忍?

      对莺莺的弃之可惜,亦是拿韦蕙丛做对比。当他回头见莺莺没有他依然恬淡怡然,百般纠缠;更寡廉鲜耻地写下《莺莺传》,将之与莺莺欢爱的场面不遮不掩地搬出台面,全然不顾忌莺莺为人妇的身份,和当时在世的韦蕙丛的心情。话说回来,自他以后艳情派大行其道,能把男欢女爱以诗词描述得如此淋漓尽致兼露骨,元稹可谓开山鼻祖。他像只欲求不满、永不知足的蝴蝶,沉迷于花丛,需要他想得到的每一个女人,却未曾真正地爱过她们。从某一种角度上想,他何尝不可悲?惟有强化情诗虚张声势他的爱情。

    July 23

    heap_sort

    #include <stdio.h>
    #include <stdlib.h>
    #define MAX_ARRAY_SIZE 1000
    #define LEFT(X) X *2
    #define RIGHT(X) X *2 + 1
     
    void show_array ( int  arr[], int begin, int end)
    {
     int i ;
     for (i = begin ; i < end ; i ++)
     {
      printf (" %d is %d\n",i,arr[i]);
     }
    }
    void exchange(int  arr[] ,int left, int right)
    {
     int tmp;
     if (left == right) return;
     tmp  = arr[left];
     arr[left] = arr[right];
     arr[right] = tmp;
    }
    void max_heapify(int arr[], int index, int heap_length)
    {
     int max,l,r;
     max = index;
     
     l = LEFT(index);
     r = RIGHT(index);
     
     //printf(" l = %d, r= %d,index = %d\n ",l,r,index);
     
     if (l < heap_length && arr[l] > arr[index]) max = l;
     if (r < heap_length && arr[r] > arr[index]) max = r;
     if (max == index) return;
     
     exchange(arr,max,index);
     max_heapify(arr, max, heap_length);
    }
    void build_tree(int arr[], int array_length)
    {
     int middle,i;
     
     middle = array_length/2;
     
     if (middle * 2 == array_length)
     {
      middle --;
     }
        for (i = middle ; i >= 0 ; i --)
     {
      max_heapify( arr , i , array_length);
     }
    }
    void heap_sort(int arr[] , int array_length)
    {
     int heap_length,i;
     
     
     heap_length = array_length;
     
     build_tree(arr, array_length);
     printf("now after build tree\n");
     
     show_array(arr ,0, array_length);
     for (i = array_length-1 ; i > 0 ; i --)
     {
      exchange(arr,i,0);
      heap_length --;
      max_heapify(arr,0,heap_length);
     }
    }
    int main(void)
    {
     int arr_length ,i;
     int arr [MAX_ARRAY_SIZE];
     arr_length =8;
     printf("please input %d number\n",arr_length);
     for (i = 0 ; i < arr_length; i++)
      scanf("%d\n",arr + i);
     printf("now the original array is\n");
     show_array(arr , 0, arr_length);
     heap_sort(arr, arr_length);
     printf("now the sorted array is \n");
     show_array(arr, 0, arr_length);
     return 0;
    }

    QuickSort

    #include <stdio.h>
    #include <stdlib.h>
    #define MAX_LENGTH 100
    void show_array(int arr[], int begin, int end)
    {
      int i ;
     for (i = begin ; i <end ; i ++)
      printf("arr[%d] = %d\n",i,arr[i]);
    }
    void swith(int arr[], int left,int right)
    {
     int tmp;
     if (left == right)
      return;
     tmp = arr[left];
     arr[left] = arr[right];
     arr[right] = tmp;
    }
    void quicksort(int arr[], int begin,int end)
    {
     int i,j,seed;
     if (end - begin <= 1)
      return;
     seed = arr[begin];
     i = begin ;
     j = begin ;
     while (++j < end)
     {
      if (arr[j] < seed)
      {
       swith(arr,++i,j);
      }
     }
     swith(arr,i,begin);
     quicksort(arr,begin,i);
     quicksort(arr,i+1,end); 
     return;
    }
    int main(void)
    {
     int arr_length ,i;
     int arr [MAX_LENGTH];
     arr_length = 6;
     printf("please input %d number\n",arr_length);
     for (i = 0 ; i < arr_length; i++)
      scanf("%d\n",arr + i);
     printf("now the original array is\n");
     show_array(arr , 0, arr_length);
     quicksort(arr, 0, arr_length);
     printf("now the sorted array is \n");
     show_array(arr, 0, arr_length);
     return 0;
    }
    July 22

    merge sort

    /*
    When I am a student at college, I have no computer to implement it ...
    The first sevral years I began to work, I have no time...
    now, here it is.
    */
    #include <stdio.h>
    #include <stdlib.h>
    #define MAX 1000
    #define ARRAY_SIZE 11
    void show(int arr[],int count)
    {
     int i;
     for (i = 0 ; i <count ; i ++)
     {
      printf("%d == %d \n",i,arr[i]);
     }
    }
    void merge_sort(int arr[], int begin,int end)
    {
     int middle;
     int temp_array[MAX] ;
     int i,j,k;
        if (end-begin == 1)
     {
      return;
     }
     middle = (begin + end) /2;
     merge_sort(arr,begin,middle);
     merge_sort(arr,middle,end);
     //merge 2 parts together;
     i = begin;
     j = middle;
     k = 0;
     while(i < middle || j < end)
     {
      if (i == middle)
      {
       temp_array[k++] = arr[j++];
       continue;
      }
      if (j == end)
      {
       temp_array[k++] = arr[i++];
       continue;
      }
      if (arr[i] < arr[j])
      {  
       temp_array[k++] = arr[i++];
      }
      else
      {
          temp_array[k++] = arr[j++];
      }
     }
     for (k = begin; k < end; k ++)
     {
      arr[k] = temp_array[k-begin];
     }
    }

    int main(void)
    {
     int arr[ARRAY_SIZE];
     int i ;
     printf("please input 5 numbers\n");
     for (i = 0 ; i < ARRAY_SIZE; i++)
     {
      scanf("%d\n",arr + i);
     }
     printf("now ,there is origenal array!\n");
     show(arr,ARRAY_SIZE);
     merge_sort(arr,0,ARRAY_SIZE);
     printf("now ,there is sorted array!\n");
     show(arr,ARRAY_SIZE);
    }
     
    July 20

    Beijingers told to mind their manners

     

    By Michael Bristow
    BBC News, Beijing

    Chinese young men walk past a poster promoting the Beijing Olympics

    Olympics propaganda promotes smiles and displays of unity

    Beijing citizens have been told not to pick their noses, yawn or scratch their heads when talking to foreigners during the Olympics.

    They have also been given a list of things not to ask overseas visitors - a list so exhaustive it could make conversation difficult.

    Ordinary people have also been given detailed instructions on how to talk to disabled people during the Paralympics.

    Chinese officials want ordinary people to show the country's most civilised face during the sporting events.

    A booklet prepared by the propaganda department of Beijing's Dongcheng District gives locals an introduction to the games.

    It has a special section on dealing with foreigners, including what to do when talking to overseas visitors.

    'Wear a smile'

    "In conversation, wear a smile, don't stare too long or do anything to make people feel ill at ease," it says.

    The booklet advises Beijing people to say to disabled people such things as: 'You're really excellent'

    It also warns Beijing people not to yawn, shout, pick their noses, scratch their heads, play with their fingernails or pull at their clothes while talking.

    The booklet suggests people abide by the "eight don't ask" principle when talking to foreigners.

    Subjects to avoid include what foreigners earn or how much they spend, how old they are, whether they are married and whether they are healthy.

    Also off-limits are questions about where foreigners live, where they have worked, their religious or political beliefs, or what they are currently doing.

    In the booklet, propaganda chiefs remind Beijing citizens to be careful when being interviewed by foreign journalists during the Olympics, which begin on 8 August.

    It tells them not to say or do anything that harms national prestige, the country's image or national security.

    Queuing day

    Beijing officials are obviously concerned about how disabled people will be treated during the Paralympics, which takes place just after the Olympics.

    "Before you help [a disabled person], first of all get their agreement and co-operation. Absolutely do not use force or be too enthusiastic," says the booklet.

    A queue at a railway station in Hefei, Anhui province, at the end of June

    Queuing is to be encouraged, say authorities

    It advises Beijing people to say to disabled people such things as: "You're really excellent".

    Officials have long been concerned about their own citizens' behaviour during the Olympics, and have launched several campaigns to stamp out bad habits.

    The 11th day of the month was designated queuing day, instituted to convince people not to barge onto buses and trains.

    These campaigns are generally supported by ordinary people.

    "The queuing campaign definitely helps people to behave better," said Yang Xiaoyan as she waited to board a train at Beijing Yonghegong Temple subway station.

    "In the past it was really chaotic at this subway station," she added.

    Queuing, crossing the road, driving a car, watching Olympic events and talking to foreigners: Officials want to make sure everyone does it right.

    July 18

    iPod

    iPod seems not as fancy as other brand of  mp3, it have not FM, camera kind of things, and it's price is much expensive than other brands. It's reputation comes from it's elegant design. iPod contributes a lot of conveniences.For example, using ipod to listen audiobook(m4b) is comfortable, ipod can remeber the last positions of each  audiobooks. Furthermore, there are very much podcast resources at internet, you can download BBC or CNN news to you ipod. Anyway, the designer of iPod  really want give his user some good experiences , instead of provide  a lot of useless functions.
     
     
    July 16

    A father and a son

    Time goes fast,now, my son is 6 years old.I don't know why, everyone thinks I don't care about him. Maybe when he came, I'm too young to get ready to be a father. Or  every time when I think about the relationship between me and him, I recall the relationship between my own father and me.
     
    My father is the type man, who act more and speak little. He be strict to me everytime before I grow up. Although he take all responsibility of  being a father, make me eating good, dressing well and getting changces of education, I did not like to go near him very much. I never dear make joke with him. Actually, we did not have much time be  together . He always worked late, and I have little time live at home after I went to collage.
     
    Things are diffrent, now, I have a lot of spare time, but I really don't put all my spare time on son. Or I don't like show my loves directly, I don't like praise him all the time, I don't like buy him some candy or sweet food. Sometimes, I bring him to play outdoor, I don't want him just go with me , I try to let him find his own friends.  I am a pessimism, I always find his shortcoming. What kind of thing we do can benifit our children? Maybe there is not a standard of being a perfact father, we just do something we can do.
     
     
    July 12

    New week resolution

    Perfact whether,blue sky and white cloud.I'm alone at home.
    Really depressed, knew the truth, no any chances, feeling fall down.
    I don't know why, everytime I'm down for my career , I will remeber Mr. Liu, everytime he will be active infront in everything.
     
    Anyway, I'll keep bing deligence, although I'm doing stupid supporting.